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How to Apologize and Say Sorry to a Lover
Views: 193  |  Comments: 0 |  Posted: 02:37 Sat, 12 Jul 2014
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Posted on: 02:37 Sat, 12 Jul 2014



Flowers and cards can say, Im sorry but alone, they just dont cut it when you are trying to give asincereapology to the person you love.

When we honestly apologize to someone, it is because we want forgiveness.
We want to be let off the hook for whatever wrongdoing weve done, or hurt weve caused.
And you cant always receive the forgiveness you seek when you simply flop down a bouquet with a generic thank-you card.

Apologies take effort, and you should take the time to formulate a genuine apology with the following eight steps.
The 8 essential steps of apologizing to a lover

#1Find out what exactly happened. Dont guess what the issue is, ask your boyfriend/girlfriend or spouse to clearly tell you what you said or did to hurt them.

#2If you are at fault in the situation, then you should take responsibility for your actions.
Placing the blame elsewhere is immature and will set you back further, possibly risking your relationship.

#3You should prepare your apology, taking into account what you want to say it. Also, you should keep the delivery of your apology, such as the time and place, in mind.

#4Say sorry sincerely. If youre not genuine, the apology will definitely fail and you will be back to square one.

#5 Be grateful and thank the person for listening to you. Depending on what youve done, that could be more difficult than you understand.

#6 Dont assume you will be excused, and instead ask for forgiveness.

#7 Remember to be patient. Sometimes, accepting an apology can take time, and your partner needs space to think about what comes next.

#8 Follow through on your word. If, in your apology, you agree to do something, or stop doing something, make sure you honor those promises.

Now, while these are the fundamental steps to creating a meaningful apology, you also need to take into consideration the differing degrees of an apology.

While a modest sorry might be acceptable if you forgot to call, that wont fly if youve done something severely untrustworthy like break an important vow.

Apologizing in love

While these essential steps, and different degrees of Im sorry can help you out if youve made a mistake in love and need to apologize, they are not fail proof.
Not all things can be forgiven. If youve done something truly menacing or cruel that could likely have a lasting impact on a relationship, regardless if an apology is given or not, forgiveness might be hard to come by.

Its best to steer clear of such a situation from the beginning, and instead be honest and trustworthy throughout your relationship. Then you wont need to do so much apologizing.
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